{"id":398,"date":"2017-03-17T20:55:52","date_gmt":"2017-03-18T03:55:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/?p=398"},"modified":"2018-09-05T22:02:19","modified_gmt":"2018-09-06T05:02:19","slug":"memories-of-mom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/?p=398","title":{"rendered":"Memories of Mom"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"398\" class=\"elementor elementor-398 elementor-bc-flex-widget\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-10cbc5d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"10cbc5d\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1ff1c24\" data-id=\"1ff1c24\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e75bf23 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"e75bf23\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"448\" height=\"600\" src=\"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/IMG_1172-e1489710358800.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-403\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/IMG_1172-e1489710358800.jpg 448w, https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/IMG_1172-e1489710358800-224x300.jpg 224w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 448px) 100vw, 448px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-68023f8\" data-id=\"68023f8\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-041f0ec elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"041f0ec\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThree years ago today, my mother left&nbsp;Colorado for the last time&#8211;all the way to heaven itself. At the age of 90 she still looked as she does&nbsp;in this wonderful picture of her that I took just&nbsp;about nine months earlier. That smile and the twinkle&nbsp;in her eyes stay with me even today. Mothers are one of God&#8217;s greatest gifts, even with any faults they might have (my mother&#8217;s were very few). Sons, on the other hand, are much farther from being perfect and she loved to remind me that some of her gray hair came because of me. Then she&#8217;d chuckle and say, &#8220;And, looking at your gray wreath around your bald head, God paid you back with children of your own.&#8221; Don&#8217;t misunderstand&#8211;she didn&#8217;t look at children as a curse, but as a tremendous blessing. And how she loved her grandchildren and great-grandchildren! They all brought huge smiles to her face and a dancing light in her eyes.&nbsp;She remembered when those phones were&nbsp;a household item&#8211;she worked as a telephone operator when people owned such phones.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3753636 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3753636\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5a61df5\" data-id=\"5a61df5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2ee7c31 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2ee7c31\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThis photo was taken in 1943 (maybe 1944) when Mom was working as a telephone operator in Craig, CO. Her &#8220;career&#8221; at the telephone office came to a close the day after she got engaged to my father&#8211;he had returned home for a leave&nbsp;in 1945 after&nbsp;service in North Africa and Europe in WW2. They married and had a brief honeymoon in Denver before his leave was up. As their firstborn, I entered this world as&nbsp;one of the earliest of the &#8220;Baby Boomers.&#8221; Then came my sister Martha, our&nbsp;brother Jim, and lastly our sister Susan. When people talk about acronyms for <strong>MOTHER<\/strong>, I always begin with <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>M<\/strong><\/span><strong>y<\/strong> and <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>O<\/strong><\/span><strong>ur<\/strong>, because that relationship is so very, very precious. And, with Mom, the <strong>T<\/strong> was for <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>T<\/strong><\/span><strong>ease<\/strong>&#8211;how she loved to tease! Just ask my brother-in-law, Warren, who also loves to tease. She was #1&nbsp;practical joker in our family&#8211;in other words, she was <strong>fun<\/strong>. That leads to <strong>H<\/strong> for <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>H<\/strong><\/span><strong>appy<\/strong>, because that is how she was and what she made all of us. <strong>E<\/strong> was for <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>E<\/strong><\/span><strong>xcellence<\/strong>&#8211;she demanded it and expected it, and we grew to seek it as a pattern in our lives. Lastly, <strong>R<\/strong> for <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>R<\/strong><\/span><strong>edeemed<\/strong>. Yes, when she came to the Lord in faith in 1962 Mom became an even better and happier Mom. Her faith became the candle burning brightly in our home. She stayed active in the church until the week before she left earth to enter heaven.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3ce2161\" data-id=\"3ce2161\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3b09c5a elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"3b09c5a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"850\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Mary-Jean-Barrick-Phone-Office-850x1024.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-406\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Mary-Jean-Barrick-Phone-Office-850x1024.jpg 850w, https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Mary-Jean-Barrick-Phone-Office-249x300.jpg 249w, https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Mary-Jean-Barrick-Phone-Office-768x926.jpg 768w, https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Mary-Jean-Barrick-Phone-Office.jpg 857w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 850px) 100vw, 850px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-09920b4 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"09920b4\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7f16e6f\" data-id=\"7f16e6f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-89cdbbc elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"89cdbbc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"847\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Mary-Jean-Barrick-Graduation-847x1024.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-405\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Mary-Jean-Barrick-Graduation-847x1024.jpg 847w, https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Mary-Jean-Barrick-Graduation-248x300.jpg 248w, https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Mary-Jean-Barrick-Graduation-768x928.jpg 768w, https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Mary-Jean-Barrick-Graduation.jpg 872w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 847px) 100vw, 847px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e5dda8a\" data-id=\"e5dda8a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-552a9a9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"552a9a9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tMom graduated from Moffat County High School, Craig, CO in 1942. Her graduation picture is the way I think I might be seeing her in heaven&#8211;restored to the bloom of youth as she worships her Savior in His presence throughout the infinite future. Her appearance&nbsp;changed with&nbsp;the years, but I remember her ever youthful heart and attitude. In her late 80&#8217;s I took her fishing&#8211;and she loved it&#8211;even though we caught nothing that day. She loved drives in the Colorado countryside through cedar breaks, canyons, over hills, mesas, and into the mountains and forests&#8211;even the sagebrush flats and arroyos.&nbsp;Soon after her salvation she chose <strong>Galatians 2:20<\/strong> as her life verse (in the KVJ, of course):\n<blockquote>I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.\u201d<\/blockquote>\nPrecious, precious memories. Thanks, Mom. See you in heaven.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-558b560 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"558b560\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-685c618\" data-id=\"685c618\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-514ddce\" data-id=\"514ddce\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c454e55 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c454e55\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>Mary Jean (Holt) Barrick<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>July 5, 1923 &#8211; March 17, 2014<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a8da9d8\" data-id=\"a8da9d8\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3ef5933 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3ef5933\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6348b37\" data-id=\"6348b37\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-43df58d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"43df58d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Northwest Colorado<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-3478 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Screenshot-2017-03-16-19.16.29.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"368\" height=\"307\"><\/p>\n<strong>Note:<\/strong> My&nbsp;mother-in-law, Lucille Dow, also worked at a telephone switchboard in Alamosa, CO at about the same time. Barb and I have wondered if our mothers ever spoke to one another from their respective switchboards. We both also had great-grandparents who lived in Cripple Creek, CO in the last of the 19th century who might have met each other. I feel a&nbsp;<em>Twilight Zone<\/em> episode coming on.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-bbec47a\" data-id=\"bbec47a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-888749a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"888749a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Telephone Switchboard ca. 1943<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3479 aligncenter\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Screenshot-2017-03-16-17.45.34.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Three years ago today, my mother left&nbsp;Colorado for the last time&#8211;all the way to heaven itself. At the age of 90 she still looked as she does&nbsp;in this wonderful picture of her that I took just&nbsp;about nine months earlier. That smile and the twinkle&nbsp;in her eyes stay with me even today. Mothers are one of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,1],"tags":[339,1096,901,1204,1205,1206,1207,1208,907,1209,1210,1211,1212,1213,1214,1215,1216,1217,1218,1219,45,1220],"class_list":["post-398","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life","category-uncategorized","tag-bill-barrick","tag-casper-wy","tag-cody-wy","tag-colorado","tag-craig-co","tag-custer-sd","tag-eckert-co","tag-galatians-2","tag-jim-barrick","tag-martha-hale","tag-mary-jean-barrick","tag-mary-jean-holt","tag-memories","tag-moffatt-county-high-school","tag-mom","tag-mother","tag-santa-clarita-ca","tag-susan-dole","tag-telephone-operator","tag-tomah-wi","tag-william-d-barrick","tag-wyoming"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/398","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=398"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/398\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":419,"href":"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/398\/revisions\/419"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=398"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=398"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbarrick.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=398"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}